Victims vs. Creators
When comparing a Victim and a Creator, a victim will blame some else for their problems where as a creator will look for the solution to the problems. A victim is a complainer a creator is someone who rarely complains but takes action instead. Many of you folks in prison are here because you think like victims. When you understand completely the differences between, victims and creators, I hope you will think like creators when you get out of prison. Victims get themselves into trouble in several of ways. For example, my sister Maria had an assistant name Dorothy. On third week working for my sister Maria, Dorothy came to work saying that she had a new car. At the end of shift, Dorothy said, “bye to everyone.” But few minutes later Dorothy came back and said, “I have a flat tire.” My husband and I offered to help. Dorothy was pacing and was nerves and hesitated for a while. After few minute Dorothy responded and said, “Sure.” My husband Martin got his tools and followed Dorothy around the building, where the car was. Seconds later my brother Mike came and asked where Martin was at, I told Mike that Martin was helping Dorothy with a flat tire. That is when Mike said, “Sister did Dorothy have a blue Buick Regal? I said, I don’t know.” But my nurse Carol saw the car and said, “Yes it was a blue Buick 1988.” Mike got serious and said, “Sister call my brother-in-law the car is stolen.” I said, “What!” Mike said, “I am not kidding earlier when I was coming in the front entrance this guy asked if I new the owner of the blue Buick Regal.” Mike told the guy, he did not know the owner.